We've just completed our grand tour of the Northeast mountains, and it's time for a golf counter update.
This is a wrist-worn mechanical score counter, specific to golf but quite generalizable, that a child can use to add (or subtract) points for good or bad behavior. The one we've been using looks like this.
I first read about golf counters in Clara Park's seminal autism memoir, The Siege, first published in 1967. Park's daughter Jessy became interested in using one as a teenager, after seeing another behavior-challenged boy clicking away at one. She loved the idea of clicking up points for good behavior, and rewinding points for those behaviors she was working on. And she was so into it, and so bound by the point system she'd write up and revise every Sunday with her parents--depending on which behaviors she had under control and which new ones had emerged--that, as Clara has told me, she'd willingly subtract hundreds of points for a major misbehavior even while bursting into tears about it.
Not my son!
Here's the rub. For the golf counter to work as well as it did for Jessy, honesty is key.
My son, who
1. breaks into people's email accounts by tricking them into telling him the answers to their security questions and then changing their passwords, and then
2. impersonates them while replying to their emails
is anything but honest.
So lately I've been wearing the golf counter on my own wrist, and letting him tell me how many points to add and subtract, so that he doesn't surreptitiously add tens of extra points when I'm not looking.
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Golf counter addendum
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Golf counters : better than Ritalin
I've finally bit the bullet and purchased a golf counter (at $2.95) for my autistic son. We've taken it on vacation with us, and, for the most part, it's working like a charm.
Taking my inspiration from Clara and Jessy Park, I've put him in charge: he gives himself 10 points for every 15 minutes of no misbehaving, and (for the most part) subtracts the number of points we tell him to for bad behavior (running off; locking people in rooms; yelling; wiping on his shirt; deflating air mattresses....)
He's so into marking off these fifteen minute intervals that he'll do so even if he's in the middle of a bare, sloping rock face high up in the Adirondacks.
Today I had to confiscate the counter and do the clicking and (occasional) rewinding myself, as he'd started to cheat. Even with me in charge, his behavior has improved remarkably. He seems calmer, more in control, more content.
We'll see what happens tomorrow, but we're all hoping (including he) that he can be put back in charge of it.
Monday, August 18, 2008
Right-brained epiphanies, V: more breathless praise for nonacademic teaching
From yesterday's Philadelphia Inquirer Op-Ed page:
'I touch the future. I teach.'Included among the teachers our writer best remembers are a couple of math teachers. One of them taught her that:
Those are the words of Christa McAuliffe, educator and astronaut. The weight of these words, and the weight of their truth, are self-evident to teachers across the educational spectrum, from grammar school to grad school. Whether we are still docile students or seasoned adults in the "real" world, we can all recall a teacher who has left an indelible impression on our lives, be it good or bad, and who has shaped who we are today.
Ironically, what we remember about that teacher may have nothing to do with the subject he or she actually teaches...
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Left-brained epiphanies, part IV: hyper-analysis; career before family
A friend is leaving town today, and she's flying in the face of several of today's right-brained truisms.
And instead of realizing that she needs to slow down and put personal relations first--like Mitch Albom in Tuesdays with Morrie, Vivian Baring in Wit, and Jill Bolte Taylor in My Stroke of Insight--she's realizing that she needs to abandon a quarter-century-long intimate relationship and accelerate her career as never before.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Math problem of the week: 4th grade MathLand vs. Singapore Math
1. From the beginning of MathLand's Grade 4 Skill Power (p. 11):
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
The special draw of the standard algorithms... even when there's an easier way out
One hallmark of Reform Math is a preference for problem-specific shortcuts.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Does Quakerism necessarily imply Constructivism?
Exhibit A: Excerpts from a Quaker school principal's summer letter to parents
The learning environment in our lower-school classrooms is based on intentional exploration and social collaboration. We love the word "wonder" and practically leap for joy when a question begins, as "I wonder (if, how, why, who)" because it implies so much. The questioner shows deep engagement, curiosity, creativity, an ability to connect similarities and/or differences, and the confidence to take a risk. "Wondering" also occurs in essential ways during hands-on activities and social play as these experiences build on each other.Inquiry; active, cooperative, hands-on learning; exploration; risk-taking; no "right" answers; "rich" curricula; the teacher as "guide" and "model;" a subsequent mention of "lifelong learners"--it's all decade-old ed school hat. But as breathlessly expressed as ever, and cast, here, as something specific to Quakerism.
This is far from the classrooms where the teacher knows all, and the student's work is to get or guess the "right" answer. It is a much more challenging and rewarding way to teach, demanding more active work from both the teacher and the student. The environments need to be filled with rich curriculum to be explored and with materials that are well organized and accessible. The teacher's work is to guide and model learning and frustration by asking such questions as Why? Do you agree? Please elaborate; can you tell us more? Can you give us an example? How did you arrive at your answer? Why did it feel like when it all made sense? What did it feel like when you got stuck? What do you know now about how to go about this next time? And, yes, "I wonder..." Inherent in this teaching is our goal of "seeking truth" in Quaker parlance, our knowing of the import of listening well to others, and our expectation that we will find value in difference.
Sunday, August 10, 2008
The consequences of accelerating (or not), via Roald Dahl
My daughter and I have just finished Matilda, whose denouement includes the following insights:
...As soon as it became clear that Miss Trunchbull had completely disappeared from the scene, the excellent Mr. Trilby was appointed Head Teacher in her place. And very soon after that, Matilda was moved up into the top form where Miss Plimsoll quickly discovered that this amazing child was every bit as bright as Miss Honey had said.
One evening a few weeks later, Matilda was having tea with Miss Honey in the kitchen of The Red House after school as they always did, when Matilda said suddenly, "Something strange has happened to me, Miss Honey."
"Tell me about it," Miss Honey said.
"This morning," Matilda said, "just for fun I tried to push something over with my eyes and I couldn't do it. Nothing moved. I didn't even feel the hotness building up behind my eyeballs. The power had gone. I think I've lost it completely."
...
"Well," Miss Honey said, "it's only a guess, but here's what I think. While you were in my class you had nothing to do, nothing to make you struggle. Your fairly enormous brain was going crazy with frustration. It was bubbling and boiling away like mad inside your head. There was tremendous energy bottled up in there with nowhere to go, and somehow or other you were able to shoot that energy out through your eyes and make objects move. But now things are different. You are in the top form competing against children more than twice your age and all that mental energy is being used up in class. Your brain is for the first time having to struggle and strive and really keep busy, which is great. That's only a theory, mind you, and it may be a silly one, but I don't think it's far off the mark."
Matilda's powers enabled her to make the chalk rise up to the blackboard and write incriminating remarks about Miss Trunchbull, who then "disappeared from the scene," making way for Matilda's promotion to 6th grade.
Would that all bright kids could morph their idling skills into the kind of magic it takes to be placed in challenging classes.
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Grade compression at colleges and universities, II
I just checked my final grade online and saw that I got a B+. Can you tell me the breakdown of my grades? Most of my problem sets were V+ [no, they weren't] and I attended every class and tried to participate in lectures. The only reason why I am asking is because I felt confident that I would receive an A in the course.
Friday, August 8, 2008
Monday, August 4, 2008
Grade compression
Only in the last few months, thanks in part to Catherine at Kitchen Table Math, have I become aware of how grade compression has permeated our grade schools.
Saturday, August 2, 2008
Right-brained epiphanies, IV: second acts as faith healers
It was just days after Radovan Karadzic turned up as a purveyor of charms and amulets that harmonize the cosmic energy, prana, mana, organic energy, and quantum energy that "flow in and around us," that I discovered that another person familiar to me had similarly reinvented himself.
