Just back from a two-week family vacation (posting blog entries en route), I’ve been thinking about how that famous line from Sartre’s “No Exit” applies to parents of autistic children. For, so often, it’s the presence of other people that makes life with autism most challenging. If we autism families had the planet to ourselves, life would be so much easier.
True, being the parent of an autistic child, having contributed my share to his genetic makeup, I’m not the most social being on earth. In particular, I’m not the kind of person for whom the sudden appearance of strangers in a place I’ve been occupying by myself (or with my close kin) fills the heart with joy.
But when one of the close kin you’re with is prone to loud outbursts, bumping into people, grabbing their fingers, charging through groups instead of saying “excuse me,” calling us “dumby a*hole,” holding forth on taboo topics, and, finally, wandering into rooms uninvited, turning on the ceiling fans, and photographing them with his camera, the sudden appearance of others in previously unpopulated settings makes the heart sink.
Yes, J’s public behavior, overall, has improved over the years. But, with every half inch he grows, with every half tone his voice descends to, and with every phoneme, vocabulary word, and syntactic structure he masters, public expectations of him keep rising, and rising, and rising. Once he starts looking like a full-fledged adult, what sort of “other people” await us?
Monday, August 30, 2010
"Hell is other people"
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Our unsung intelligentsia
Sometimes I wonder if the most educated people in the world are also the most hidden from view. The people I'm thinking of spend little time promoting themselves to the public and most of their time reading. And reading, and reading--deeply, broadly, and with an open mind.
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Math problem of the week: 1900's algebra vs. Core-Plus Mathematics
| I. From the final problems in Wentworth's New School Algebra (published in 1898): |
| II. From the final problems in the contemporary high-school text, Core-Plus Mathematics Contemporary Math In Context, Course 2: |
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III. Extra Credit Estimate the ratio of time expenditure to mathematics practice in each exercise. |
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Mainstreaming with a little twist
In recent article entitled "A School District That Takes the Isolation Out of Autism" the New York Times reports on how the Madison public schools "are nationally known for including children with disabilities in regular classes."
The one autistic student we learn about is a high school junior named Garner Moss, whose parents moved to Madison because they were tired of fighting for full inclusion in Tennessee. And, while the article doesn't quantify Garner's autism, all available clues suggest that it is at the "tiny" end of the spectrum.
He is not one of the fastest on the high school cross-country team, but he runs like no other. “Garner enjoys running with other kids, as opposed to past them,” said Casey Hopp, his coach.
On cold mornings, no one wants to be first in the water, so Garner thinks it’s a riot to splash everyone with a colossal cannonball. “They get angry,” the coach, Paul Eckerle, said. “Then they see it’s Garner, and he gets away with it. And that’s how practice begins.”My son got kicked off the math team the third time he deliberately wrote on the whiteboard in permanent sharpie marker. After-school chess and soccer works out only if I attend also and keep a constant eye on him.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Inflationary pressures and gifted education
Education blogger Walt Gardner's recent post about how the U.S. education system is failing to meet the needs of education students inspired me to post a comment recapping my general take on gifted education:
Why not simply offer highly challenging classes-- and by this I mean classes that are much more challenging than what today's schools typically offer, with tough, consistently enforced standards--and let anyone who wants to go ahead and enroll in them. (And make sure they are well-publicized so that all students and parents know about them). At the same time, make it easy for students to switch to less challenging classes if they find themselves floundering.Walt then pointed out to me that some people would object to this on the grounds that students who enroll in classes they aren't able to handle may not always drop out when they can't achieve: "Marginal students will force teachers to devote inordinate time to them, diluting the overall quality of the gifted classes." He noted that something similar happened with the City University of New York in 1969, when it granted admission to every high school graduate in New York City, with the idea that students who couldn't handle the coursework would drop out.
This not only gets rid of problematic labels, but places the power to choose classes where it should be: with the students and their parents.
This is how things worked at my relatively large (size is key!) high school--multiple classes at multiple levels of challenge, open to anyone who wanted to give them a try.
Friday, August 20, 2010
Math problem of the week: 5th grade Everyday Math vs. Singapore Math
| I. One of the final assignments in the 5th grade Everyday Math Student Math Journal, Volume 2: |
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| II. Some of the final problems in the 5th grade Singapore Math Primary Mathematics Workbook 5B: |
III. Extra Credit: Assuming Everyday Math students are better at planning trips, what might Singapore Students be better at doing? |
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Drawing the right lessons about creativity, II
Ever since I started looking at the world in terms of "left brain" and "right brain" it has struck me that the best creative output involves both types of thinking. For example, creative writing would seem to involve intuition, holistic thinking, visual imagery, and empathy, on the one hand, and linear progressions, verbal precision, auditory sensitivity, and the mechanics of plotting, on the other.
However, I recently came across some interactive creative writing tools on a website sponsored by the National Council of Teachers of English that would seem to combine the worst of both left and right-brain thinking: interactive but inane visual aids and reductionist, formulatic strategies for plotting and character development. Consider these:
The Story Map
The Comic Creator
The Bio-Cube
Though I doubt any efficacy studies have been conducted, my guess is that these tools are more likely to drain away creativity rather than to inspire it.
Monday, August 16, 2010
Managing vs. educating autistic children
Saturday, August 14, 2010
Where every child is labeled "gifted"
Well, not every child. But it was just reported to me that about 70% of 22nd [typo: 2nd] graders in Montgomery County, Maryland are labeled "gifted," though only about 30% can read at grade level. Since gifted labeling is largely a function of parental initiative, this phenomenon begs the question of why so many of today's parents are clamoring for it. True, Montgomery County's parents may be especially ambitious, but my sense from the many, many parents of gifted children that I've come across is that they are part of a larger trend.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Math problem of the week: landmark numbers and made-up problems in 3rd grade Investigations vs. Singapore Math
| I. From the end of the 3rd grade (TERC) Investigations Landmarks in the Hundreds Booklet. |
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| 2. From the 3rd grade Singapore Math Primary Mathematics 3B workbook: |
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III. Extra Credit Singapore Math does not emphasize "landmark numbers"; Investigations does not emphasize the multiplication tables. Which students are better off? Compare and contrast the madeup problems in Singapore Math and Investigations Math. Discuss the importance of familiarizing family members with landmark numbers. |
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Are humanities majors more compassionate than science majors?
A recent New York Times article perpetuates the notion that people who major in the humanities are more humanistic than those who major in science. The article's focus is the Humanities and Medicine Program at the Mount Sinai Medical School in New York, which every year admits up to 35 students who have skipped the three usual requirements: organic chemistry, physics and the MCATs.
Not only are the 35 students allowed to skip these requirement, in fact, they are required to go even further. They apply early on in their college careers-- in their sophomore or junior years--and must agree to choose their majors from within the humanities or social sciences. No physics or biology majors need apply, even if they have avoided organic chemistry and the MCATs. And forget computer scientists, engineers, and mathematicians.
Following a recent study comparing Mount Sinai's humanitarians to other medical students, the program is being touted as one that produces equally capable doctors who are more well-rounded, more inquisitive, and better at relating to patients than traditional doctors are. The study, published in the journal of the Association of American Medical Colleges, was conducted by the program’s founder, Dr. Nathan Kase, and by Mount Sinai’s dean for medical education, Dr. David Muller. As the Times reports:
The peer-reviewed study compared outcomes for 85 students in the Humanities and Medicine Program with those of 606 traditionally prepared classmates from the graduating classes of 2004 through 2009, and found that their academic performance in medical school was equivalent.
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They scored lower on Step 1 of the Medical Licensing Examination, taken after the second year of medical school, which generally correlates with scientific knowledge. But over all, they ranked about the same in honors grades and in the percentage in the top quarter of the class.
Weighing in on the humanitarian hypothesis, the Times states that:
For decades, the medical profession has debated whether pre-med courses and admission tests produce doctors who know their alkyl halides but lack the sense of mission and interpersonal skills to become well-rounded, caring, inquisitive healers.
The Times then quotes Dr. Kase on the traditional set of requirements:
"...it also diminishes; it makes science into an obstacle rather than something that is an insight into the biology of human disease.”
Doctors who are equally capable, but more empathetic and inquisitive than average. What more could you wish for? But is this really what's going on?
As far as academically capability goes, the article's fine print reveals that the admissions process still uses traditional gambits to ensure bright students with a strong foundation in science. Applicants must maintain a 3.5 grade-point average. If they are admitted, they must take basic biology and chemistry. Before attending Mount Sinai Medical School, they must enroll in its summer boot camp, which provides "abbreviated" organic chemistry and physics courses. And standardized test scores still help determine admissions, namely, high school SAT scores. Actual admissions, the Times reports, "heavily favor elite schools." Students accepted in 2009 had average math and verbal SAT scores of 1444, and G.P.A.s of 3.74.
So it doesn't really surprise me that these students do well as doctors. In fact, I've always questioned the usefulness of the large quantities of detailed knowledge that the MCATs require--given how much doctors later seem to forget. And I've often wondered how often doctors actually apply general principles from physics or inorganic chemistry. It seems to me that overall intelligence, combined with a basic foundation in science, is much more predictive than whether you know your alkyl halides, or your General Relativity, or your VSEPR Theory, much of which, I suspect, few doctors remember, let alone apply, by the time they practice medicine.
What about the idea that Mount Sinai's humanitarians are in fact more sensitive and inquisitive? Here's what the Times reports about actual empirical findings, as opposed to wishful assertions:
The study found that, by some measures, the humanities students made more sensitive doctors: they were more than twice as likely to train as psychiatrists (14 percent compared with 5.6 percent of their classmates) and somewhat more likely — though less so than Dr. Kase had expected — to go into primary care fields, like pediatrics and obstetrics and gynecology (49 percent compared with 39 percent). Conversely, they avoid some fields, like surgical subspecialties and anesthesiology.
But what surprised the authors the most, they said, was that humanities students were significantly more likely than their peers to devote a year to scholarly research (28 percent compared with 14 percent).The idea that psychiatrists are better at interpersonal relations than specialty surgeons and anesthesiologists does not square with my personal experiences. Some of the nastiest, least inquisitive academics I'm familiar with, lacking the humility and openness to new ideas that comes from exacting standards of truth, are Critical Theorists, not physicists. The idea that humanities majors are more compassionate and broadly inquisitive than science majors is one of the biggest right-brain biases of our time.
As family physician Bertie Bregman writes in the New York Times Letters section:
It is tempting to believe that the study of humanities would naturally produce more humane physicians, as the research done at Mount Sinai School of Medicine seems to conclude. But while the humanities can provide a unique path to insight, that doesn’t necessarily translate into better, more sensitive doctors.A surprising observation? It shouldn't be.
Empathy and compassion in young doctors are as common in chemistry and biology majors as they are in classics majors.
Sunday, August 8, 2010
Other parents and brainy kids
I learned last night of another sort of bias against left-brain children--children who, for all their weaknesses, tend to do well in academic subjects. At a social event populated largely by parents of such children, one parent told me about how they'd ended up pulling their son out of their friendly local Quaker school. One big reason: the other parents, who were badmouthing them around the school, blaming them for their 8-year-old's advanced academic skills. Surely the only reason this boy knew so much more math than his peers did was because his parents, blatantly defying the school's egalitarianism and studied avoidance of competition, were ruthlessly pushing him ahead.
In some sense the parents were responsible. By purchasing Singapore Math books and encouraging their son to work through them, they were enabling him to get ahead of the school's Everyday Math curriculum. But the reason they did this was that their son seemed bored by school math, yet interested in math.
Another set of parents at this social event, a Turkish couple appalled at how laughably low-level 2nd grade Everyday Math is compared with 2nd grade math in Turkey, has followed suit. They're concerned that they, too, will end up feeling unwelcome at the school because of the animosity from other parents that will likely ensue.
Openness and tolerance mean different things to different people.
Friday, August 6, 2010
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Autism Diaries XXI: The Bad Seed
He laughs about the Irish Potato Famine; he laughs about South African Apartheid. (He does not laugh about the Holocaust, but perhaps only because I make sure that this deaf, autistic child of mine understands that, as our book puts it, "Other 'inferior' people like... [long list] and handicapped people were also killed in the death camps."). Reading about Jim Crow laws, his eyes light up. "What if I invent a water fountain with a button that detects skin color and doesn't turn on when people with dark fingers push it?" His inventiveness extends to our home, of course, his latest prank being to string razer-thin kite string across the living room doorway at about ankle level.
Back when his mischievousness first began, at about 9 months when he'd pull himself up to the toilet, stick his hands into the bowl, and look over at us with a big grin on his face as he swished and splashed the water around, I was grateful for the appearance of The Nurture Assumption. Our parenting, it turned out (for all the judgments of professionals and onlookers), probably wasn't to blame. But, it's nice to have occasional reminders of this, and the latest one appeared a few weeks ago in the New York Times Science Section. Of course, that doesn't stop pychologists like Susan Bartell, who have a vested interest in blaming the parents, from doing so (see the first of the many comments.)
Which is why it's nice to have these occasional reminders that the professionals are often wrong.
Monday, August 2, 2010
The year in review
My data, of course, is limited, as J tells almost as little as his teachers and aides do. I have two main sources.
My first source is what comes home in J's backpack:
1. Science quizzes with failing grades
2. Reassurances that these quizzes don't count--apparently they weren't even supposed to be handed back-- and that he's earning an A in science.
3. A final grade of B in science, based on one B (for the first timester) and two A's (for the second and third trimester). The same thing happened last year.
4. Vocabulary quizzes that started out several grade levels ahead of his measured vocabulary level, with words like "enamored," and then later (after I had to go at some length to explain why this wasn't a good idea) dropped down to words several grade levels below his measured vocabulary level, like "garage."
My second source is what I'm told by other parents who volunteer at the school, and by outside professionals whose job it is to observe J:
1. That J appears to be spending most of his time outside the classrooms his IEP has placed him in, either at a table in the hallway, or in a small private room, or on the playground (where he rarely mixes with peers).
2. That he spends the majority of his time in school being educated by non-educators (either his tss or a classroom aide.)
Mainstreaming, it would appear, sometimes means nothing more than not placing a child in a special education classroom.






